Pioneers...

Mike: Can't you just imagine the pioneers crossing Wyoming and coming over a ridge and seeing how the land goes on and on... They must have wondered if they would EVER arrive.

Me: I believe I know how they feel!

14 hours from starting point today at Iowa/Nebraska border. Still 1-1/2 hours from our Ogden beds.

Home tomorrow!

Getting Closer...

Last weekend was a bridal shower for Krieg and Karissa's wedding.  Yes I know - it's for the bride.  Krieg was asked to make an appearance to play a few rounds of "The Newlywed game".  He did so grudgingly but was a good sport.

It was a lovely shower at Miss Kathy's house.  Miss Kathy is the bride's mom's dear friend AND our GS's preschool teacher.  Small world. 

Even met a friend of the Bride's family who works at BCDC...  ok so that one could go either way. 

  

We felt a bit out of place.  The groom's representation was pretty sparse - just Brit, Erin and myself.  So many groups already familiar with one another and assembled together - the downside to being from outside the area and having family scattered.   I'm really looking forward to the Rehearsal dinner and wedding as our family and friends will be here too.

Drum Roll please...

Introducing Grandbaby #2. Please welcome "Cosmo" Mysexisyettobedetermined Murray. 11 weeks in the shell, the size of a lime and proceeding fine.

Look - Up in the Sky!

For many years, while living near Oshkosh, WI, the 'fellas' in our household attended the Experimental Aircraft Airshow (EAA) with Navy friends Knobs & Dudley.  When Mike couldn't get the time off, they would take a young Matthew in his place. 

Last weekend we were invited to join Matt, Brit & Tate at the small air show at the Warhawk Air Museum in Nampa, ID.  Indeed it was small, but the aircraft flown were so limited in numbers still operating I was left in awe.

The 'fellas' attended and happily shared the experience with the 'next generation' too.

The Numbers Game

Today is Saturday.  This means I've spent another week on 'The Program'.  It's not a 12-step program.  In fact it's a life-long commitment to better living.

In 2010 I decided it was time to make some changes for the better.  I started by reminding myself I can't change that which I have no control. My Mantra.  In other words, stop worrying about what others in your life are doing or thinking and do what's best for your and your family.  It does no good to sit and hope someone will like you because you want them to and you've been around forever when in fact their actions say different. I can only do so much from this end and I'm tired of the silence. Their loss.

I also decided it was time to shed some El-Be's.  I started exercising, even making it up to a 30-45 run (hey I'm so NOT a runner) on a treadmill inclined...  until I did something to the ligament in my foot and had to have surgery.  I nursed it way longer than I should -  I felt I had a great excuse and psychologically I couldn't get past it.  It was all me.  And I gained 20 of the 35 lbs I lost.

I tried Weight Watchers on line last year to prepare for our daughter's wedding and quite frankly it was VERY apparent I require a tad more accountability.  As I adjusted to a new work schedule and longer days when I worked, I found I had yet another excuse for not doing what I wanted.  I made a slight effort but failed at accomplishing anything remarkable.

This year in January I tried heading back over to the Y to work out - me and 60,000 (a slight exageration) others who made a New Years Resolution to work out.  Very discouraged I left and vowed to return...  later.  In February I was speaking to a coworker about losing weight.  I saw where Weight Watchers was having a special rate.  I learned there are several from our department who are attending Weight Watchers.  I made a decision to join that first week.  And announced it - THERE I said it.

I began my journey topping out at a number I couldn't believe.  Surely someone with a horrible sense of humor had set a cement block behind me.  Nope - what was behind me was ALL me! 

Counting points is a task for the meticulous and therefore I do well.  Everything I eat gets tracked.  I use their website and phone apps. Planning ahead helps to know what to eat and be prepared.  I am a list maker and organizer so this all falls right into my lifestyle.  I find myself eating breakfast which I never did before.  Lunch can be a challenge on work days but since I am not inclined to eat the cafeteria food (even their "Healthy choice Happy Meals") I usually dish up a portion of last night's dinner.  Dinner is sometimes a challenge.  Variety.  Planning is not Mike's strong suit so on days when I work I try to come up with something he can easily put together and still not break the "point bank".  We've even found some lower point meals which we can enjoy on our date nights.

Mike wanted to tag along on this journey.  Thankfully.  We signed him up for the on-line Weight Watchers.  It's less expensive and he doesn't weigh in at meetings.  He has access to all of the on-line and Smart phone tools.  Naturally, as men are over-achievers, he is doing great and dropping pounds faster than me.  Where he's noticed is his belt.  He's had to add four new notches and a belt IS a requirement!  Healthwise he is off several of his prescription meds. 

So where is my rambling headed... 

Today I stepped on the scale very apprehensively.  Last week my weight went up a 6/10's of a pound.  I am always naughty and weigh in at home to compare.  I didn't like what I saw this week at home and reluctantly left the house.  This week I lost 2.4 lbs.  My second strong week of no cheating, walking 4 nights, working in the yard and making the right food choices for meals.  I saw numbers on the scale which I haven't seen in YEARS!  I'm sooo close to my goal for my first 10% before we leave on our vacation - and believe I might even make my second goal of 10lbs before Krieg and Karissa's wedding in August.  Wow.  I said that outloud. 

This is a journey.  It started because I have one more opportunity to NOT be the fat momma at our youngest child's wedding.  Well, that and my decision to change my way of living.  I've brought my best friend with me, and my folks in Wisconsin are also following the Weight Watchers program.   Even Ethel in Georgia found out her health insurance will help cover the monthly dues and signed up.  When I'm struggling at work my coworkers nudge me along.  I'm so proud of us all.

I still have to remind myself not to get upset about the things I have no control over. Sometimes an energetic playlist on the iPod and some fresh air is a great cure. I'm definitely healthier.  I hope to lower my blood pressure meds over time.  My cholesterol has improved.  My energy has skyrocketed (I went from slug to catepillar...).  I even bought some clothes a size smaller. 

Today as a reminder I tried on my dress for the wedding.  It fits better than it did in May.  I'm definitely heading in the right direction - I'm moving forward (with so many things...)!

Lacrosse - the Next Generation...

Since 1991 we've always had a child playing a sport and a team to cheer on.  Soccer in Evansville, Soccer and Swimming in Neenah.  Lacrosse in Boise and most recently, the Pacific Northwest.  Lately our time spent on the sidelines are few and far between.  Mike's grandson in Texas plays football in Texas.  Our heart's desire would be to sit in the stands every week, however the reality is we can't just invite ourselves for a visit.  Krieg is still playing lacrosse but I'm not sure adult teams have parents on the sidelines cheering you on...  (All aboard the pity train!)

We've been waiting for our youngest grand to have activities which require attentive fans in the wings - especially a Gramma with a very large camera.  This spring I noticed the Y was offering a lacrosse camp for five year olds - what luck!  Outside of t-ball and soccer there isn't much for a five year old to learn around here. 
So for Mr. T's birthday we gave him a camp.  It was his to pick but we'd hoped the lacrosse would spark his interest.  It was!  His Tio provided a very cool lacrosse stick.  His Mom found cleats on sale.  His Dad and Tio tag teamed him to fit his new blue mouthguard. 

Ready for lacrosse camp.  All geared up!

Camp lasted four mornings.  The first day we encouraged him to stay with the coaches and kids.  He was a bit hesitant.  In no time he learned to pick up ground balls, how to pass and catch the ball.  Surprisingly there were several children who already had some stick skills (older siblings and coaches for parents). 

Warming up is an important part of every sport.

Catching the ball.

Tate and Tio (who came to watch & ensure it was legit!)

The second day the coaches taught the 5-7 year olds some drills to expand on their newly learned skills. 

Cradling the ball.

Day three was an actual scrimmage after a refresher of the skills.  Mr T's seen the game.  He knew how to hit the opponents stick to make them drop the ball.  The first time he did this it was against the only girl camper and she cried to the coaches "he hit me...!" 

Scrimmage time.

Day Four was scrimmaging and not nearly enough water breaks as far as Mr. T was concerned.  He was over lacrosse camp.

Goalie - just like Daddy

I'm certain this will be the first of many group activities for our favorite five year old., especially as his future interests expand (and Kindergarten evolves).  Rest assure his loyal fan base will be there to watch.

Happy Anniversary!

It isn't a coincidence that we were married in the same church as my folks. It's the church where I was raised to know God.

We would have chosen the same day had it fallen in the weekend. Instead we picked a day earlier. A Sunday. Turned out my folks were also married on Sunday, 23 years earlier.

My Dad gave my hand away to my future husband on Father's Day - as did my Grandpa do the same for his youngest daughter, my Mom, 23 years earlier.

This year we celebrates our union of 30 years. Quite monumental given the odds we were up against early on...

June 20, 1982

June 21, 1959

June 20, 1982