Showing posts with label Lent. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lent. Show all posts
Sunday, March 16, 2014
Sunday, March 9, 2014
A Not-So-Routine Week
Labels:
DIY,
Grandsons,
House Projects,
Lent,
Yardwork
A typical week for us starts out with our 'to-do' list, matching appointments, errands and projects. Mike volunteers once or twice up to Birds of Prey, Erin comes over for laundry day and 'girls play time'. But lately our projects have taken over. We have really been kicking @$$ and taking names to reach our intended goal.
Last weekend we ended up with both of our grandsons here Saturday. Baby C's folks had dinner plans downtown and Mr. T's folks were heading out on the motorcycle for a quiet dinner after a day of garage cleaning. Papa and I split the list. I headed out to run errands. Papa worked on shelves for the garage. After too many years we finally a tidy garage... I don't even cringe when the door opens. I bought a paint for 3 of the bedrooms but painting was delayed because of time with grandsons.
Monday morning I was determined to make things happen. The guest room was emptied of furniture and calling my name. Unfortunately so was work. My job-share coworker left word she wasn't coming into work and I was asked if I could help. I opted out of Monday with the promise to work the rest of the week. I had a goal - to get the guest room painted - ceiling, walls and trim. Well two out of three isn't bad...
I love going in to work when it isn't expected. Everyone is so appreciative and welcoming. Despite only working four days I still managed over 40 hours and kept all of my afternoon appointments
Ruger is doing great with his pet training - when he is at class. At home he behaves like a 3rd grader high on sugar. Actually he is a good puppy - and I have to keep reminding myself despite the fact he has a 'big boy' haircut and is nearing his full-grown status, he is still just that - a puppy. He sits, lays down, stays and obeys leave it.
Ash Wednesday mass was this week. We now have 40 days to reflect the meaning of Lent. It's a good starting point to make changes in your life - especially changes for the better which will be able to carry on beyond Easter.
Last weekend we ended up with both of our grandsons here Saturday. Baby C's folks had dinner plans downtown and Mr. T's folks were heading out on the motorcycle for a quiet dinner after a day of garage cleaning. Papa and I split the list. I headed out to run errands. Papa worked on shelves for the garage. After too many years we finally a tidy garage... I don't even cringe when the door opens. I bought a paint for 3 of the bedrooms but painting was delayed because of time with grandsons.
Monday morning I was determined to make things happen. The guest room was emptied of furniture and calling my name. Unfortunately so was work. My job-share coworker left word she wasn't coming into work and I was asked if I could help. I opted out of Monday with the promise to work the rest of the week. I had a goal - to get the guest room painted - ceiling, walls and trim. Well two out of three isn't bad...
I love going in to work when it isn't expected. Everyone is so appreciative and welcoming. Despite only working four days I still managed over 40 hours and kept all of my afternoon appointments
Ruger is doing great with his pet training - when he is at class. At home he behaves like a 3rd grader high on sugar. Actually he is a good puppy - and I have to keep reminding myself despite the fact he has a 'big boy' haircut and is nearing his full-grown status, he is still just that - a puppy. He sits, lays down, stays and obeys leave it.
Ash Wednesday mass was this week. We now have 40 days to reflect the meaning of Lent. It's a good starting point to make changes in your life - especially changes for the better which will be able to carry on beyond Easter.
We all make sacrifices for Lent. We try to let go of a vice. For some it's chocolate, soda or coffee. For others it might be eating dinner out, . Two years ago I gave up Facebook. Most try to leave something behind. In previous years I've tried to do something different - pay it forward, help someone in need, do something without being asked - you get my drift. I like this idea better.
Father Len discussed our vices and leaving them behind after 40 days. I am trying hard to be less critical of others during Lent I've never been a big 'pollyanna' type of person. I call it like I see it. I'm finding I enjoy the challenge I've chosen. I've also given up idle-ness (is that a word?) Even if it's just a walk every night with Ruger.
After two years following weight watchers, I've changed to my Fit Bit which is worn - and registers steps. I come close to 10,000 steps most days - and have met that goal often. I can log additional activities, meals, water, and best of all my sleep. It's been interesting to see how the restless periods affect how I feel during the day.
With the weekend once again up on us, we had two big ticket items - the back yard spring clean up and finishing painting. After checking our weather satellite maps it was easily decided to work outdoors Saturday and inside Sunday. I raked the flower beds and the entire back lawn. I rearranged some stones left over from previous ponds to make a small wall along the edge of the deck. Mike trimmed grapes and berries. It all looks pretty spiffy in an early spring sort of way.
AND we still managed to take a break long enough for Mr. T's soccer game during the afternoon!
We will definitely be doing some seeding this year to recuperate from the bug that ate the roots last year, but for now the shrubs are groomed, flower beds cleaned and grass raked. Ruger spent most of the afternoon dropping a ball at my feet and chasing after when it's thrown. He was dragging grapevines out of the pile as soon as they were collected.
Naturally we took advantage of the clippings that were bigger and enjoyed a few moments by the fire pit as well.
Saturday evening we shared a dinner date and sleep over with Mr. T. He joined us for Mass today and did very well. The gray, gloomy skies didn't bring out the best in me. I've been struggling with a couple of things lately and had hoped this was the weekend my folks were coming for a visit. They had to delay because of my Aunt's health. So today we weren't very productive and boy - I really missed that extra hour of sleep!
Father Len discussed our vices and leaving them behind after 40 days. I am trying hard to be less critical of others during Lent I've never been a big 'pollyanna' type of person. I call it like I see it. I'm finding I enjoy the challenge I've chosen. I've also given up idle-ness (is that a word?) Even if it's just a walk every night with Ruger.
After two years following weight watchers, I've changed to my Fit Bit which is worn - and registers steps. I come close to 10,000 steps most days - and have met that goal often. I can log additional activities, meals, water, and best of all my sleep. It's been interesting to see how the restless periods affect how I feel during the day.
With the weekend once again up on us, we had two big ticket items - the back yard spring clean up and finishing painting. After checking our weather satellite maps it was easily decided to work outdoors Saturday and inside Sunday. I raked the flower beds and the entire back lawn. I rearranged some stones left over from previous ponds to make a small wall along the edge of the deck. Mike trimmed grapes and berries. It all looks pretty spiffy in an early spring sort of way.
We will definitely be doing some seeding this year to recuperate from the bug that ate the roots last year, but for now the shrubs are groomed, flower beds cleaned and grass raked. Ruger spent most of the afternoon dropping a ball at my feet and chasing after when it's thrown. He was dragging grapevines out of the pile as soon as they were collected.
Saturday evening we shared a dinner date and sleep over with Mr. T. He joined us for Mass today and did very well. The gray, gloomy skies didn't bring out the best in me. I've been struggling with a couple of things lately and had hoped this was the weekend my folks were coming for a visit. They had to delay because of my Aunt's health. So today we weren't very productive and boy - I really missed that extra hour of sleep!
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
4 P's for Lent
This weekend we went north with our favorite five year old. I offered to babysit for the new parents so they might go out to celebrate St. Patricks Day. They enthusiastically took up my completely selfless offer.
Our DIL has been out of town and we've been sharing our favorite five year old with his other grands. His Daddy's schooling was wrapping up and we were meeting him up north for the weekend.
It was a special weekend. Time with oldest son, daughter, son-in-law, husband, and BOTH grandsons. I felt great to be able to see everyone together (we did miss the newlyweds) and how special to spend such one-on-one time with both grandsons together. The weekend fulfilled nearly all 4 P's for Lent. Not sure about productivity but as I start out this new week I have paint for a bathroom project.
Our favorite five year old started out cautiously around the baby but it didn't take long for him to figure out he was really alright. T is a great big cousin to little C.
He has already offered to share his Legos! Now that's some serious stuff.
Thursday, March 14, 2013
Prayerful, Personal, Productive and Positive Week 4
Thursday, March 7th - Wednesday, March 13th
It's been a bit difficult this week to focus on the 4 P's for Lent. Sometimes the noise from your life gets in the way and focus becomes difficult. Instead I dove into work and tried to gain a new perspective on life around me.
Day Light Savings occurred this weekend, ready or not. Mostly not. I will definitely enjoy the later sunset. I just hope the extended daylight hours will infuse my senses and propel me into any form of activity at this point. We didn't start out well. Saturday night we stayed up late and watched four hours of Lincoln television shows on the DVR, well past the 2am time change. Needless to say noon seemed appropriate for rising from our slumber.
Sunday was tough. It was nearly 3:30 pm before we finally shed our sleeping clothes and moved into forward motion.
Somewhere during the day I started a little de-cluttering and cleaned decor items from top of the kitchen cabinets.
Monday was officially National Napping Day. We were very happy to oblige. Our favorite five year old was delivered to our doorstep in the morning when his other grandparents headed off to work. His dad is up north in school again and his mom joined her sister and brother-in-law on a trip to Las Vegas. We are very happy to have him with us for a few days. When I go back to work he will return for two more nights with his other grands and then head north with us Friday night.
One of Tate's favorite activities is making his own pizza for dinner. I made up dough and had the toppings ready for preparation. Auntie 'Rissa came for dinner and we were joined by Tio for sundaes. Tate enjoyed hanging out with them.
Today we enjoyed sunshine and warm temperatures. Tate asked to walk home from school so it gave me a reason to get outside when walking over to pick him up. We stopped in the park to swing and climb around awhile. Once home we decorated the porch and house with our Easter decorations. Tate started some raking in the back yard while I made dinner. Our big after dinner plans to make a train engine using the 'map' in his Lego magazine wasn't quite as successful as Drahma wasn't able to find the 1x4 flat pice with axles needed. Papa joined us and was able to convince the Master Builder we could build with other parts - so far so good. As our day winds down, our favorite five year old crashed hard. I think he sets a good example!
It's been a bit difficult this week to focus on the 4 P's for Lent. Sometimes the noise from your life gets in the way and focus becomes difficult. Instead I dove into work and tried to gain a new perspective on life around me.
Day Light Savings occurred this weekend, ready or not. Mostly not. I will definitely enjoy the later sunset. I just hope the extended daylight hours will infuse my senses and propel me into any form of activity at this point. We didn't start out well. Saturday night we stayed up late and watched four hours of Lincoln television shows on the DVR, well past the 2am time change. Needless to say noon seemed appropriate for rising from our slumber.
Sunday was tough. It was nearly 3:30 pm before we finally shed our sleeping clothes and moved into forward motion.
Somewhere during the day I started a little de-cluttering and cleaned decor items from top of the kitchen cabinets.
Monday was officially National Napping Day. We were very happy to oblige. Our favorite five year old was delivered to our doorstep in the morning when his other grandparents headed off to work. His dad is up north in school again and his mom joined her sister and brother-in-law on a trip to Las Vegas. We are very happy to have him with us for a few days. When I go back to work he will return for two more nights with his other grands and then head north with us Friday night.
One of Tate's favorite activities is making his own pizza for dinner. I made up dough and had the toppings ready for preparation. Auntie 'Rissa came for dinner and we were joined by Tio for sundaes. Tate enjoyed hanging out with them.
Today we enjoyed sunshine and warm temperatures. Tate asked to walk home from school so it gave me a reason to get outside when walking over to pick him up. We stopped in the park to swing and climb around awhile. Once home we decorated the porch and house with our Easter decorations. Tate started some raking in the back yard while I made dinner. Our big after dinner plans to make a train engine using the 'map' in his Lego magazine wasn't quite as successful as Drahma wasn't able to find the 1x4 flat pice with axles needed. Papa joined us and was able to convince the Master Builder we could build with other parts - so far so good. As our day winds down, our favorite five year old crashed hard. I think he sets a good example!
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Prayerful, Productive, Positive and Personal Week 3
Thursday, February 28th
I wish I could say I've held myself to task but honestly today was just another day at work. Steady. Projects. No complaints. No productivity either. I'm thankful February is a short month. I know folks who have stepped up their work out challenge or added a creative task to their days this month... Me, you ask? Nope. Like a named Chinese New Year, I've declared today as the official end of the month of The Slug. You should see my 'To Do' list for March!
We hit the road tomorrow after work. My bag is packed, and the rest (camera, deck of cards, iPod, book and wine!) is organized on the table for loading.
Friday, March 1st
It's a good time to reflect as we drive along the Columbia River gorge. The stars shine brightly in the sky. The river is a vast span of darkness across to the other side where a long train stretches out across the landscape. A good reminder of the season we are honoring. Be prayerful. Be productive. Stay positive and remember to be true to your own person.
Saturday, March 2nd.
Sometimes a day starts out with a bright outlook and in the blink of an eye (or the ding of a text) your entire life changes. It's how you handle the changes that can make or break you. Of course this is 50 plus years of heartache, anxiety and experience speaking. I looked for the positive. Sometimes excuses are just that - excuses. Ask for forgiveness. Move forward with as much trust as one can muster. Toss aside anything being put in your way that is meant to cause more pain. Work with what you have control over. And pray.
Sunday, March 4th.
We enjoyed God's creativeness today. Our personal day. The beauty of the vast ocean. The majestic bald eagles soaring over head. Moments of contemplation and prayer on the beach in memory of our family who have passed on.
Monday, March 5th.
Wondering how our family is and anxious to speak to every one again. Being out of range was a test in trusting prayer for guidance. We stopped to share a meal with our oldest grandson, his wife and meet our two sweet great granddaughters! How's that for a positively personal day!
Tuesday, March 6th.
Today wasn't much more than a restful day. Productivity took place though not volumns. Laundry is caught up. Bags unpacked. House organized again. Even made soup for dinner. Spent the morning with our favorite five year old. He has a cold. And the way I feel right now I'd say he's sharing again. Oh well. If I got a few germs while cuddling with him on the sofa so.be.it. It was my personal moment!
Wednesday, March 7th.
Back to work which means productivity at it's finest... (stop giggling). Had a great morning relaxing with our favorite five year old before going in to work.
I wish I could say I've held myself to task but honestly today was just another day at work. Steady. Projects. No complaints. No productivity either. I'm thankful February is a short month. I know folks who have stepped up their work out challenge or added a creative task to their days this month... Me, you ask? Nope. Like a named Chinese New Year, I've declared today as the official end of the month of The Slug. You should see my 'To Do' list for March!
We hit the road tomorrow after work. My bag is packed, and the rest (camera, deck of cards, iPod, book and wine!) is organized on the table for loading.
Friday, March 1st
It's a good time to reflect as we drive along the Columbia River gorge. The stars shine brightly in the sky. The river is a vast span of darkness across to the other side where a long train stretches out across the landscape. A good reminder of the season we are honoring. Be prayerful. Be productive. Stay positive and remember to be true to your own person.
Saturday, March 2nd.
Sometimes a day starts out with a bright outlook and in the blink of an eye (or the ding of a text) your entire life changes. It's how you handle the changes that can make or break you. Of course this is 50 plus years of heartache, anxiety and experience speaking. I looked for the positive. Sometimes excuses are just that - excuses. Ask for forgiveness. Move forward with as much trust as one can muster. Toss aside anything being put in your way that is meant to cause more pain. Work with what you have control over. And pray.
Sunday, March 4th.
We enjoyed God's creativeness today. Our personal day. The beauty of the vast ocean. The majestic bald eagles soaring over head. Moments of contemplation and prayer on the beach in memory of our family who have passed on.
Monday, March 5th.
Wondering how our family is and anxious to speak to every one again. Being out of range was a test in trusting prayer for guidance. We stopped to share a meal with our oldest grandson, his wife and meet our two sweet great granddaughters! How's that for a positively personal day!
Tuesday, March 6th.
Today wasn't much more than a restful day. Productivity took place though not volumns. Laundry is caught up. Bags unpacked. House organized again. Even made soup for dinner. Spent the morning with our favorite five year old. He has a cold. And the way I feel right now I'd say he's sharing again. Oh well. If I got a few germs while cuddling with him on the sofa so.be.it. It was my personal moment!
Wednesday, March 7th.
Back to work which means productivity at it's finest... (stop giggling). Had a great morning relaxing with our favorite five year old before going in to work.
Wednesday, February 27, 2013
Prayerful, Productive, Personal and Positive - Week 2
Thursday, February 21st.
Productive. Today was definitely a productive day at work. Ten hours kept me busy at the Charge desk, sparing you the details, while the procedures rolled in and out of the Operating Rooms. We wave at the little guys being carried in with crocodile tears in their eyes and send an encouraging smile to anyone still alert enough to make eye contact. I enjoy my job and somehow whenever I feel lacking or epically frustrated, someone steps into my day and says just the right thing. Today was no different. While I was recognizing my coworkers for effort they made, they in turn encouraged me. At the end of the day, I seldom regret taking this job and making this change in my life.
Saturday, February 23rd.
Positive and Personal. Today Papa and Drahma Deb enjoyed the company of their favorite five year old. We had a movie marathon. Dinner in front of the TV. Blankets tucked around our legs. I've been slowly adding to our movie collection after years of giving away DVD's to kids. I just love spending enjoying life with a five year old. His sense of humor, outlook on life and pleasure he shares always brings a smile to my face.
Sunday, February 24th.
Prayerful. I spent a lot of time today silently praying for my family. There is so much to be thankful for right now. The special moments with our favorite five year old. The birth of our healthy newborn and his delightfully happy parents. The success of our newlyweds and their career paths. The ability to learn new skills and expand the experience of our oldest son and early stages of a new business for our DIL. There is always family drama. No family is immune. Sometimes the drama is more serious and heart breaking to everyone - those involved and those on the outside helplessly looking in. I'm praying for peace and guidance for all.
Monday, February 25th.
Prayerful and Personal. Today was a day of rest. In between resting I napped and prayed.
Tuesday, February 26th.
Productive, Personal and Positive. I love Tuesdays. We spend the morning with our favorite five year old. Even though he wasn't feeling 100% (or because) we snuggled, read a couple books and colored pictures for his Tio.
I finally got out of the house... mailed a package to our youngest family member and bought a birthday gift for our 2 year old Great-grand. Look at me being all productive! I'm embarrassed to even think how long I've been avoiding these things on a 'to do' list. Should I mention the gift is "belated".
Our youngest wanted to borrow my camera for a lacrosse weekend. Of course I said yes. Then realized we had plans for the same weekend. No worries I have a back up camera and knew he'd be ok using it. We had planned to get both boys new camera for their birthdays ths year. Matt has such an artistic eye and got his earlier this month. TK is involved with Lacrosse All Stars, using many media resources. So we decided to celebrate TK's birthday in February instead of May!
We invited K2 to dinner so TK would have a chance to check out my camera. After our meal, we sat with our glasses of wine. As TK went through the camera bag he seemed impressed I kept my camera still in bubble wrap. We let him run with it for a few more minutes and finally said "Happy Birthday". He was genuinely surprised (as was his brother on his birthday). Gosh it feels so darn good to share something unexpected but truly appreciated.
Wednesday, February 27th.
Positive. Today's schedule was fairly light at work. I always enjoy the "social" aspects of catching up with my coworker (we job share), it was a good feeling to divide up the day instead of doubling up - allowing her an afternoon with her sons and me a easy-going morning with my favorite five year old.
Prayerful. Continued prayers for my family - their health, their happiness and well-being.
As my second week winds down, I feel a bit inspired to become very busy with a couple of projects on my 'to do' list... Maybe the sunshine is healing my blues.
Productive. Today was definitely a productive day at work. Ten hours kept me busy at the Charge desk, sparing you the details, while the procedures rolled in and out of the Operating Rooms. We wave at the little guys being carried in with crocodile tears in their eyes and send an encouraging smile to anyone still alert enough to make eye contact. I enjoy my job and somehow whenever I feel lacking or epically frustrated, someone steps into my day and says just the right thing. Today was no different. While I was recognizing my coworkers for effort they made, they in turn encouraged me. At the end of the day, I seldom regret taking this job and making this change in my life.
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| Work attire - Jealous?? |
Friday, February 22nd.
Positive. Tonight we had dinner with our oldest son. He is back in town prior to a long stretch away at school. It was nice not to feel rushed and just enjoy a meal and visit. His work keeps him away from his wife, son and the rest of us for so many weeks out of the year. I do miss just being able to talk to him. Perhaps this was as much Positive as it was Personal.
Saturday, February 23rd.
Positive and Personal. Today Papa and Drahma Deb enjoyed the company of their favorite five year old. We had a movie marathon. Dinner in front of the TV. Blankets tucked around our legs. I've been slowly adding to our movie collection after years of giving away DVD's to kids. I just love spending enjoying life with a five year old. His sense of humor, outlook on life and pleasure he shares always brings a smile to my face.
Sunday, February 24th.
Prayerful. I spent a lot of time today silently praying for my family. There is so much to be thankful for right now. The special moments with our favorite five year old. The birth of our healthy newborn and his delightfully happy parents. The success of our newlyweds and their career paths. The ability to learn new skills and expand the experience of our oldest son and early stages of a new business for our DIL. There is always family drama. No family is immune. Sometimes the drama is more serious and heart breaking to everyone - those involved and those on the outside helplessly looking in. I'm praying for peace and guidance for all.
Monday, February 25th.
Prayerful and Personal. Today was a day of rest. In between resting I napped and prayed.
Tuesday, February 26th.
Productive, Personal and Positive. I love Tuesdays. We spend the morning with our favorite five year old. Even though he wasn't feeling 100% (or because) we snuggled, read a couple books and colored pictures for his Tio.
I finally got out of the house... mailed a package to our youngest family member and bought a birthday gift for our 2 year old Great-grand. Look at me being all productive! I'm embarrassed to even think how long I've been avoiding these things on a 'to do' list. Should I mention the gift is "belated".
Our youngest wanted to borrow my camera for a lacrosse weekend. Of course I said yes. Then realized we had plans for the same weekend. No worries I have a back up camera and knew he'd be ok using it. We had planned to get both boys new camera for their birthdays ths year. Matt has such an artistic eye and got his earlier this month. TK is involved with Lacrosse All Stars, using many media resources. So we decided to celebrate TK's birthday in February instead of May!
We invited K2 to dinner so TK would have a chance to check out my camera. After our meal, we sat with our glasses of wine. As TK went through the camera bag he seemed impressed I kept my camera still in bubble wrap. We let him run with it for a few more minutes and finally said "Happy Birthday". He was genuinely surprised (as was his brother on his birthday). Gosh it feels so darn good to share something unexpected but truly appreciated.
Positive. Today's schedule was fairly light at work. I always enjoy the "social" aspects of catching up with my coworker (we job share), it was a good feeling to divide up the day instead of doubling up - allowing her an afternoon with her sons and me a easy-going morning with my favorite five year old.
Prayerful. Continued prayers for my family - their health, their happiness and well-being.
As my second week winds down, I feel a bit inspired to become very busy with a couple of projects on my 'to do' list... Maybe the sunshine is healing my blues.
Thursday, February 14, 2013
Prayerful, Productive, Personal & Positive Week 1
Thursday, February 14th
Positive. Today is Valentine's Day! I've never been a big fan of the day because it seems like people go overboard buying cards, flowers, chocolates and other gifts. But because I'm trying to fulfill my Lenten promises I used today to deliver a special gift to our DIL. She's talked about stepping in a new direction taking an activity with which she's very talented and making it into a small business. Plus if I have a baker in the family I wouldn't have to make cakes any longer (not something I'm very good at nor do I strive to improve).Oh I didn't leave out the other two girls in my life... I found some really cute frames and shared my favorite bottles of wine with both.)
Prayerful. Tonight I pray for our southern Goddaughter. She's struggling with so many things. When she was younger her Mom struggled to protect herself and her children from an irratic father. In our goddaughter's teen years, he felt it appropriate to push and pull with his daughter's feelings. As a young adult he wants to buy her love and she's willing to accept. Meanwhile she's receiving genuine, unconditional love from her grandparents and mom now and doesn't recognize the potential. She lied to government officials about her home life, causing her own mom to be investigated. Recently she lied to her mom about her personal life and returned to the pretense of attending school, driving, moving in with her dad - all the while sharing every moment of her personal status in social media.
I pray our Goddaughter will find her way to accept the challenges before her. I pray she finds the strength to walk into each new day with honesty and integrity. I pray she finds love for herself in her heart so that in time she will once again see and accept the love she has always received unconditionally from her family now. I pray she realizes how many of her true friends are reaching out to help and not turn them away.
Friday, February 15th
Prayerful & Personal. Today I'm tired. Maybe exhausted. Two weeks on the road have caught up with these old bones. I worked my scheduled 10 hours. Tonight I did nothing. And it was nothing ALL for me. I caught up on many of the shows on the DVR wrapped up in a blanket. I have no plans to wake early, or use an alarm. I am praying tonight for my husband to heal. His ankle is swollen and he doesn't take care of himself. Tomorrow will be a quiet day for him too!
Saturday, February 16th.
Prayerful, Personal... Again.
I'm trying hard to walk away from my funk. Pity party. Table for one. What has me down? I will vent in a very un-Lent way. Where have manners gone? What happened to common courtesy? We call people and leave messages- calls seldom returned. I text to share something or ask and wait, and wait. Most of the time I have to inquire if the news was received. I gave up my preferred calling because I won't hear your voice anyway. I rearrange my schedule or errands, hurrying around to catch someone and then they leave as soon as I arrive. If your schedule doesn't permit at least a few minutes more of your time then please say something and we can reschedule. I won't even address acknowledging other people. The thank you has passed on. I'm disappointed in the "out of sight out of mind/I'll call when I need something" relationship. We make effort to visit and be there for important events. We care what happens and want to be a part of your life. We'd love to hear your big news. Yes I'm tired. I'm praying for energy and strength to pull myself together.
I am being selfish. I should shake this weight off and do something productive or positive. I don't really think it qualifies as personal today but honestly it's the best I can do. My treadmill walk is an escape... Plugged in to my iPod closes out the outside noise.
Bedtime: Just a final note before bed. I managed to find a positive note for the day. We were able to take our oldest son out for dinner and give him his birthday gift. I know he will put it to great use. He has such a good eye and like our daughter said - we can always put him to work for us when we get our business up and running. He was genuinely surprised and very pleased. It always feels so good when you find something for someone special, and you know they'll truly be happy. He definitely can use a reason to be happy. So as I wrap up the day and head to bed, I'm sending up additional prayers for my children - that they find the answers in their hearts to the questions in their heads.
Sunday, February 17th.
Personal, Productive. It's been a quiet Sunday in our household today. Slept in, laundry finished up, "To Do" list ready for the week, a couple bills paid and dinner on the stove. We had a nice visit this afternoon from the Newlyweds. They are so busy with their work schedules, working opposite hours. It was fun to have a few moments to catch up with their life.
Prayerful.Tonight I pray for the new week to come. May we continue to enjoy good health and find the time to be active enough to feel the success in our journey. I am praying for my loved ones - that they enjoy peace in their hearts.
Monday, February 18th.
Productive. (Though clearly not as productive as the Newlyweds.) I finally finished taking down the outside Christmas lights. This is the task my husband was attempting to do when he hurt himself last weekend... but I digress. (Love you honey.) Everything is now organized in the garage and ready to be carried up to the attic until next Christmas season. I'm ready for the week's menus too. But honestly it's been an off day. Maybe because I covered at work for most of the day instead of my normal Monday off. I just didn't get my brain into work mode. Just go to bed Debra. Tomorrow is another day with more opportunities for successful P's.
Tuesday, February 19th.
Productive. Productivity at it's finest. After a morning spent with our favorite five year old (always Positive AND Personal) I started out my afternoon with a couple of projects.
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| Naturally my afternoon had to include 45 minutes wogging on the treadmill. |
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| I made a big batch of chicken chili to share in tomorrow's Chili Cook-Off!
Finally, I completed my Benefits Enrollment for work and carried the last of the Christmas decorations up to the attic. Both feet planted back on Terra Firma... and THAT Shaw, is how it's done!
Wednesday, February 20th.
Positive. Happy Birthday to my Dad, who turned 77 years old today. After a busy day I finally sat down and had a wonderful visit with him for nearly and hour on the phone. It's been awhile since I've had the opportunitiy to just sit and talk without having one of have to get something done or run off. It was special to have Dad to share what's been going on with our family - catch them up on the details of our three trips for Calder's arrival and what's going on here in town. Sometimes a girl needs to talk to her Dad, no matter how old we are getting to be.
Prayerful. Tonight we are praying for our youngest granddaughter Mikayla. She's 13 years old and was taken to the ER tonight in TN, because of migraine headaches. She was fighting the flu recently and also has aches and chest pains. Since I recently learned what migraines are all about, I'm feeling her pain and hope they find her relief - maybe one of those magic IV cocktails. Nonetheless I hope it's resolved and she's back to her old self soon.
Ok, so the picture is a couple of years old. But with the modern age of technology and pictures shared on Spacebook, instead of email or snail mail, we are definitely out of date. It doesn't change the fact that she's very special to us.
Personal. Today I participated in a Chili Cook-Off at work. I felt inspired to play along when I don't normally particpate in these activities. So that pot of chili I made yesterday was deemed worthy of sharing. It did taste mighty fine if I do say so myself. Guess What? I won! They told me the vote for the winner was a land slide! Whodathunk?! We now have a pair of movie tickets to use and a weekend coming up with no plans! Perfect!
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Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Prayerful, Productive, Personal and Positive
In January our newest DIL wrote here in her blog regarding 4 P's. Something prayerful, something productive, something personal and something positive.
- Something prayerful. It's pretty self explanatory.
- Something productive. Do something productive every day.
- Something personal. Make time for yourself.
- Something positive. Do something good for someone else.
Our son also added - something physical. (Not bloody likely...)
Her challenge for this season of Lent was to complete each of these tasks every day for 40 days. I admire her goals. I think they are wonderful and I aspire to be as good a person.
I've chosen to accomplish at least one P each day. We have a lot on our plates right now and I'm juggling emotions daily. It's important to try. It's important to maintain. It's important to be strong. I think fulfilling my Lenten goals will help me focus on the importance of the Season as well as the positive things in my life right now.
Wednesday, February 13th
Prayerful.
Today I went back to work after a couple of very hectic weeks. I will pray for my family members tonight. Our daughter gave birth to our second grandson Calder. He's healthy, happy and so adorable. Tonight she went into the ER for a possible incision infection. I'll pray for Calder's continued good health. I'll pray Erin heals and for her husband Chris to have the strength to hold his new little family together.
I will also pray for our son Matt, his wife Brit and our favorite five year old grandson. I pray they know how much we love them and are here for them.
I will pray for our newlyweds as they sort out job opportunities. I know schedule changes have been trying but know you two are strong and carry one another through the week.
Productive and Postive.
Today we ran a couple of errands after work. We purchased our son's birthday gift. I'm very excited about the gift as I feel it's something he'll thoroughly enjoy and use in a very artful manner. I was able to sit down and write the words in a card I've had on my mind for a week. It's a special Valentine's gift for our other DIL. I am hoping to encourage her to try a new adventure that has been in her heart.
I suppose the laundry I washed counts for something too!
- Something prayerful. It's pretty self explanatory.
- Something productive. Do something productive every day.
- Something personal. Make time for yourself.
- Something positive. Do something good for someone else.
Our son also added - something physical. (Not bloody likely...)
Her challenge for this season of Lent was to complete each of these tasks every day for 40 days. I admire her goals. I think they are wonderful and I aspire to be as good a person.
I've chosen to accomplish at least one P each day. We have a lot on our plates right now and I'm juggling emotions daily. It's important to try. It's important to maintain. It's important to be strong. I think fulfilling my Lenten goals will help me focus on the importance of the Season as well as the positive things in my life right now.
Wednesday, February 13th
Prayerful.
Today I went back to work after a couple of very hectic weeks. I will pray for my family members tonight. Our daughter gave birth to our second grandson Calder. He's healthy, happy and so adorable. Tonight she went into the ER for a possible incision infection. I'll pray for Calder's continued good health. I'll pray Erin heals and for her husband Chris to have the strength to hold his new little family together.
I will also pray for our son Matt, his wife Brit and our favorite five year old grandson. I pray they know how much we love them and are here for them.
I will pray for our newlyweds as they sort out job opportunities. I know schedule changes have been trying but know you two are strong and carry one another through the week.
Productive and Postive.
Today we ran a couple of errands after work. We purchased our son's birthday gift. I'm very excited about the gift as I feel it's something he'll thoroughly enjoy and use in a very artful manner. I was able to sit down and write the words in a card I've had on my mind for a week. It's a special Valentine's gift for our other DIL. I am hoping to encourage her to try a new adventure that has been in her heart.
I suppose the laundry I washed counts for something too!
Sunday, April 8, 2012
My Hiatus...
Labels:
activities,
Family,
Lent
No Spacebook... what does one do with their free time?
Turns out A LOT!
I found by not checking Spacebook I was also spending less time making bulletin boards and playing on-line games. Meanwhile I used the 'down time' for a walk in the neighborhood, pulling a few weeds in the yard or wrapping up an already started project around the house. Maybe my Lent season sacrifice wasn't really...
We spent lots of time with GS. He actually turned FIVE years old! Where has the time gone?
We thoroughly enjoyed an afternoon matinee of the Lorax with our favorite nearly 5 year old and his folks.
We had breakfast with a 'long time' friend - AND she started a very promising job! Now we have plans for a day trip with our cameras. Way to go Randy!
We've enjoyed time with son while he was still in town. He was very creative by recycling our old deck boards into his garden bed and deck frame. He is very handy and has made good use of the lumber. Reminds me so much of my Dad.
Slowly I'm painting trim in rooms which were desperately in need of a fresh touch. Still have a few to go but it's a rainy-day project.
I created Raggedy Ann and Andy for G-GD. Regrettably the clothes are only partially complete. It will take me an hour to sit and complete but I need to either give up a sunny day project or pray for rain.
We ordered 4,000 lbs. of flagstone and sand. Two days after it was delivered we had the pile all laid out in the back yard. Matt magically appeared both afternoons and his younger back was a grateful addition to our efforts. This week the pea gravel will be delivered, shoveled and put down to fill in - followed by a tool closet and potting bench to clean up the rest of the area.
I started writing newsy emails to family and friends - again. Discovered if you write them they will answer and it's so much fun to get the updates.
In addition to our sleepovers and preschool days, we had lunch with GS and his folks after preschool.
I made chocolate chip, oatmeal raisin and peanut butter cookies. And counted the points for my diet. Had to weigh the pros and cons for the value of the treat.
We visited "Heaven" (Kalaloch) with family and friends. It didn't quite go as planned but we had some quality time to recharge on the beach. Nothing better.
I took pictures - lots and lots of pictures.
I had date night with my hubby - Act of Valor. For this Navy family a great story.
Had repairman come for noisy washer. Bad bearings. $. Went shopping for new washer... discovered we purchased a five year warranty - what luck! Egg on our face - we happily shake our heads wondering how it is we DIDN'T know this.
Joined WW... at six weeks I lost my first 5%~ (and then some!)
Tried new recipes for dinner at least twice a week.
Made brownies. Had one to satisfy my chocolate craving and passed the majority off to GS in a ziploc bag.
and... I rejuvenated my blog.
I hope you all had a very blessed Easter, with time for family, reflection and relaxation.
Turns out A LOT!
I found by not checking Spacebook I was also spending less time making bulletin boards and playing on-line games. Meanwhile I used the 'down time' for a walk in the neighborhood, pulling a few weeds in the yard or wrapping up an already started project around the house. Maybe my Lent season sacrifice wasn't really...
We watched our daughter play hockey in McCall. Chris is their coach. Our first time to see the newlyweds since Christmas. It was brief but so worth the drive.
We thoroughly enjoyed an afternoon matinee of the Lorax with our favorite nearly 5 year old and his folks.
We've enjoyed time with son while he was still in town. He was very creative by recycling our old deck boards into his garden bed and deck frame. He is very handy and has made good use of the lumber. Reminds me so much of my Dad.
I created Raggedy Ann and Andy for G-GD. Regrettably the clothes are only partially complete. It will take me an hour to sit and complete but I need to either give up a sunny day project or pray for rain.
I started writing newsy emails to family and friends - again. Discovered if you write them they will answer and it's so much fun to get the updates.
In addition to our sleepovers and preschool days, we had lunch with GS and his folks after preschool.
I made chocolate chip, oatmeal raisin and peanut butter cookies. And counted the points for my diet. Had to weigh the pros and cons for the value of the treat.
We visited "Heaven" (Kalaloch) with family and friends. It didn't quite go as planned but we had some quality time to recharge on the beach. Nothing better.
I took pictures - lots and lots of pictures.
I had date night with my hubby - Act of Valor. For this Navy family a great story.
Had repairman come for noisy washer. Bad bearings. $. Went shopping for new washer... discovered we purchased a five year warranty - what luck! Egg on our face - we happily shake our heads wondering how it is we DIDN'T know this.
Joined WW... at six weeks I lost my first 5%~ (and then some!)
Tried new recipes for dinner at least twice a week.
Made brownies. Had one to satisfy my chocolate craving and passed the majority off to GS in a ziploc bag.
and... I rejuvenated my blog.
I hope you all had a very blessed Easter, with time for family, reflection and relaxation.
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